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Temptation is all around us everyday. As human beings, we are all vulnerable to temptations. whys is it so easy for us to give in? I think sometimes we want a life free of complications, free of consequences. We just want to live in the moment.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be free and happy however we should learn to accept that our actions have consequences and we cannot just do whatever we please. As a grown up, i realize that you cannot "have your cake and eat it." Something has got to give, you have to let go off somethings.
Sometimes, i think i want something and why shouldn't i have it? But that's just being selfish and immature. You usually feel guilty after giving in to temptation and you end up feeling worse instead of better. You just have to keep trying to fight the urge to give in . ( "it is really hard but suck it up")
My mother said that to me in a conversation we had last week. It got me thinking about life and how we always look for explanations to life's mysteries and problems. But the truth is sometimes in life , there is no answer! I was watching one of the TV shows i love, (yes i love watching TV shows) and the dad was saying to his child that "one day you are going to grow up and realize that you don't have all the answers".
Children usually have an innocence that reasons that there is an answer for everything but us we grow up we realize that life is not black and white. Life is complicated and sometimes there is no explanation. There are so many things that happen in life and we ask ourselves why? Why are some people born with horrible disabilities? why are some people insane? why do some parents abandon their children? Why do some people die so young? why cant everybody find love?
There are just so many things we cannot understand and not matter how desperately we want…
Circumstances and opportunities or lack thereof mold us into who we are. Sometimes we think that we are better than others because the truth is some people are born into a "better" life. Some people are given alot more opportunities in life and i know its not fair but that is the way life is.
There are always people who are born without much opportunity and facing a lot of challenges who manage to make something out of their lives. Many wealthy and successful people werent born that way, they had to earn their success through hard work and determination to succeed.
In life, you will fail at some things but you must never give up on trying to make your life better. Do not sit there and feel sorry for yourself and say but i cant achieve this dream because i do not have the opportunities. Get up and do something about it. If you want something go get it. If you are unhappy about something, change it.( "i am not talking about altering your body with surgery")